Not having a problem with it before does not mean you do not now, Miss Lily. That said, there is no right or wrong way to feel. Acknowledging the things you do feel is what's most important. If you focus too much on the "supposed to" and not the you in the moment, it'll end up hurting you more than anything.
I do understand not being able to understand your "in the moment" feelings, though. Sometimes, not knowing is your way of putting stops to things you are hesitant or not wanting to feel. Could that be a possibility?
If you still don't know, do not worry. Not knowing is not a bad thing.
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mooninthewater) wrote2023-08-16 12:10 pm
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No, I've never had a problem with that.
( LILY- )
It's- very hard to decipher how I feel, and- how I'm supposed to feel?
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I do understand not being able to understand your "in the moment" feelings, though. Sometimes, not knowing is your way of putting stops to things you are hesitant or not wanting to feel. Could that be a possibility?
If you still don't know, do not worry. Not knowing is not a bad thing.